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hannah's avatar

I liked the big plastic trees in the kids section in the library they were So Big

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Sam Bickersteth's avatar

Beautiful and appropriately light - you can't dwell on these things long or they seem to run away from you. It's more a matter of trying to subtly, distantly look at your memories as though they were strangers on the subway, vaguely familiar faces whose meanings and resonances you quietly struggle to make sense of. Something is always alluring, somewhere between sadness, happiness, fear, and hope, and that inevitable nostalgia that seems capable of unfurling from even the darkest times in life, like flower from ash. But you never quite know what you're pining for....

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Cara Goldstone's avatar

Ah!!! Sam!! Thank you so much for reading! This is an apt and gorgeous way to put it. I am very much quietly struggling to make sense of it, and of most things. This seems to be how we lead our lives in general. Flower from ash indeed. You’re being more poetic than me on my own post and I encourage it.

For the record, we miss you in Chicago, Sam! There’s some other curly-haired ginger fellow I and my friends keep spotting around, and occasionally we think it’s you, then we laugh and reminisce for a minute, and finally we go on with our day. Best wishes. Thank you so much for commenting.

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Marc Goldstone's avatar

You've basically summarized high school in on sentence, Cara. "No one is their best self as a freshman in high school." Love the introspection and vulnerability in this essay. Well done.

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Cara Goldstone's avatar

Yeah it’s too real. I think I actually got that turn of phrase from you saying it.

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Cynthia LEWIN's avatar

Cara your poetic language is beautiful and you paint a picture with your words that become very real. I don't know if this is correct but it seems that you challenge yourself a lot and in doing so you achieve things that others might not. By that I mean, you get inside yourself and present a truly authentic picture of Cara to the world through your words.

Beautiful job honey. I'll always be your cheerleader.

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